Roller Coaster Ride Relationships could it be a twin flame relationship

I find that many people who are involved with their Twin Flames/Twin Souls grow “tired” of the roller coaster ride that the relationship sometimes takes. They abandon it long before they understand why it is a roller coaster ride. On many levels they know the relationship is different it zings them in the heart and the soul. But past that they expect it to take the same pattern and shape as every other relationship they have had. What would be the purpose of that? A twin flame/twin soul relationship requires us to dig deep within our inner being and bring forth the very soul from which this relationship was created. If we refuse to do that then the roller coaster ride becomes unbearable. This is when we begin to seek an easier relationship. One that does not require so much of us. That is okay if it is truly what you want. To me it is the difference between a salt less saltine cracker and a Ritz cracker. Yes your palate may be happy with the blandness for a short while, but for a life time? Even though the relationship does not require as much of us. Does it give us what we need? Or does comfortable bland become uncomfortable nothing. At which point we reverse engines and try to put passion, emotions and fire into the relationship. Either way you are going to work at the relationship unfortunately putting fire and passion into something that had none in the beginning may prove to be harder than learning how to manage the roller coaster ride which does mellow out but never becomes stagnant. So is there really an “easy” relationship?