Developing the relationship with your true self requires you to focus within. For those who are a twin soul, focusing on your own inner being is to focus on him or her.
Some clients that I work with who are in twin soul relationships often come at the relationship with their focus solely on the other half of their soul – reaching out for their twin soul rather than going within and searching for their own inner being. They put all their focus on their twin soul without acknowledging their own true self.
Truth is your twin soul shares the same soul as you, but you can’t have any kind of relationship with the other half of yourself without acknowledging and accepting yourself and who you truly are.
You can’t know the other half of your soul without knowing who you are. He or she is looking for your inner being when you reach out. Anyone who has concerns about their twin soul not “communicating”, may want to check if they are “communicating” with their own inner being and more to the point being their true self or not.
You have to put your all in to your inner being and being your true self to have a successful relationship with your twin soul. When you open yourself up to your true self, you are simultaneously opening yourself up to your twin soul. The more you release anything and everything that does not belong to your inner being, you open yourself up to your own true self. And when you fix your relationship with your true self and accept and acknowledge who you truly are, the relationship that belongs to your inner being falls into place just like that.
For those who are in a twin soul relationship and wondering why it is not working, take a look not at the other half of your soul but at yourself. Reach within and get to know who you are, that is your true self. Do the work on yourself to have that flawless connection to your twin soul, but most importantly to have that flawless connection with your true self, for he/she is you and you are he/she. You work on both of you just by focusing on your inner being, your true self.
When you have a solid relationship with your inner being, you have a solid relationship with your twin soul. When you communicate with your inner being, you are effectively communicating with your twin soul too.
When you are working on developing your relationship with your own inner being, reach out to the other half of your soul. Let him or her know that you desire them to be involved in every aspect of your life. He will offer you the “male perspective” of yourself, and you, the “female perspective” of himself. Or she will offer you the “female perspective” of yourself, and you, the “male perspective” of herself. Whatever you are doing throughout the day, while you are being guided by your inner being, reach out to your twin soul and get them involved and get their opinion on everything – anything from what to wear, what to watch, and what to eat – as well as finding out what they need from you.
Having this strength of connection to your own inner being as well as your twin soul’s inner being on a spiritual level, makes for a much smoother relationship with he/she in the physical. That way you have soul to soul at the forefront at all times.
What can be harder than being in a relationship with the other half of you. For many it’s a major issue because they have to work on them self, get to know them self and that for many people, can be difficult because many have an awkward relationship with them self. But if you know who you are, your true self inside-out, a twin soul relationship is a smooth relationship, for you are one and the same. So get to know your self and do the work on your self, and recognise how blessed you are to be in such a unique relationship.
Love and honour your true self and your twin soul will love and honour their true self. What’s more just as you come into loving and honouring your true self, you come into loving and honouring your twin soul, therefore he/she comes into loving and honouring you, his or her twin soul. So start doing the work on you and start loving and respecting you, so you can have the love of your life and he or she can have the love of their life, you.
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Rosalyn Medea is a journalist, writer, spiritual life coach, intuitive reader and all-round creative warrior
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