Another thing that will need to happen — which may be difficult at first — is to take a good look at yourself and what you are bringing to the relationship. This list of props that you normally use to access a relationship will need to be discarded. Maybe your phone isn’t ringing off the hook every day but you still talk to each other. The conversation may not be filled with pithy emotions, but what is important is how you feel when the conversation is done… Your soul will let you know what will work in the conversation and how quickly to proceed.
Normally, this conversation with our soul is like a discussion that you would have with your best friend. It is
more productive, however, to converse with your soul and be prepared to act on those “gut feelings” that you receive. They are the Soul’s intuitive mechanism working for you.
The quality of the interaction in a soul relationship is more important than the quantity of the interaction. You have been accustomed to being overwhelmed by the ordinary lover’s attentiveness. Attentiveness was used as an indication of their level of interest,
right? If so, then why didn’t it continue throughout the relationship? The Soul’s connections and attention are continuous, but to have that level of connection on a physical level could be very overwhelming and difficult to maintain.
This process would be releasing all the things that do not belong to The Souls in this relationship. It would
require wiping your slate of expectation of how a relationship should work. You must learn how two souls work together, how they communicate and what this specific relationship needs. The most important need that The Souls have is to love each other. Within that love is the power necessary to overcome all things.
What makes this relationship special is that the changes that take place are “inner changes” that are reflected in the physical. The Souls don’t require a complete physical makeover or all new clothing to impress your partner, just the bringing forward of your true self.