Excerpts from: Forever: Twin Flames and Twin Souls by Lady Dyanna

Excerpts from: Forever: Twin Flames and Twin Souls by Lady Dyanna

Who or What is the Soul?

In the previous chapter, I have spoken of The Soul and the Ego. Let’s take a brief look at who and what The Soul is.
The soul is a piece of universal or cosmic energy that has been shaped by the Divine Will to serve as the connection between humanity and the Divine. The Soul in and of itself is divine. The Soul is the piece of the divine that exists within all mankind, thus making all of humanity spiritual
beings. It is Divine Consciousness. The Soul has been called by many names throughout mans’ development:
The God/Goddess Self, The God-Mind, Divine Mind, Universal Spirit, Spiritual Mind, Universal Soul — and these are just a small number of the names that the Soul has.

The Soul that you are part of has existed many lifetimes, and now it is manifesting physically through you. It brings with it not only the connection to everything that ever was and will be, but it also brings the gift of Divine Love. That is what you and your Twin Soul have felt and shared. It is in and of itself a powerful force. It is a force that restores balance in our lives and in the world around us. It is no wonder that there are so many conflicting theories about Twin Soul relationships. They are relationships between Souls. When they [The Soul’s relationship] manifest physically, they have the ability to bring positive change to all that they touch.
The Soul is the ultimate source of information, guidance, and love. It is your key to seeing the world without illusion or confusion. It is the element that is necessary to be in control of your life and your destiny.
The Soul does not interfere with your free will. It actually allows you to use your free will whenever you want — and like an indulgent parent, it cleans up the messes that your free will leave behind. Alternatively, also like a stricter parent, the Soul may allow you to experience the consequences of your actions. Either way, The Soul awaits your decision whether to use its vast resources to achieve “forever”, or continue to rely on other sources.

 

Affirmations

 

Here I will give you information on Meditating as well as the first affirmations to use to begin your journey to “forever”.
Meditating is a means of focusing your thoughts. When you first start to meditate, do not try to stop the thoughts. Let them come until they stop on their own. The harder you fight them to stop them the more persistent they will be. As they come you should dismiss them without analyzing or even focusing on them. It may surprise you as to how many thoughts come before the mind is quiet…
A Simple Method of Meditation to Get You Started
If you have practiced meditation before, then use the method with which you are comfortable. If you have never practiced Meditation before: Select a time of day and a place when you can be alone and undisturbed for at least half an hour Wear loose comfortable clothing and sit in an upright position with your back and spine as straight as possible,
either at a table or desk. On the table place a single white candle in a holder. Before lighting the candle, mentally imagine yourself surrounded by a pure white protective light or aura. Now proceed with the steps below:
For approximately 10 minutes, no need to time yourself, look intently into the burning candle flame. The candle needs to be at least one foot away from your head. The concentration of your visual gaze will steady your mind, help focus it, and quiet your daily thoughts. After 10 minutes, close your eyes concentrate on the after-image of the candle flame it will be in the area of your third eye [middle of your forehead], this image will fade out after a few minutes. The most important part of this exercise is that you have moved from an outer focus to an inner focus. Using this method prepares you for the inner focus that is necessary to connect with your soul.
There are many images that may occur once the after-image from the candle is gone. Like the thoughts, let them come until they stop.
Affirmative Meditation
To practice affirmative meditation you have simply to quiet yourself and relax using the technique above. Now start your affirmations:

Affirmation One
“My mind is now relaxed into a quiet meditative state
that allows only my soul
who is a being of Universal Love and Universal Truth
to come forward and communicate with me.
Now, in accordance with my will and desire,
I am one with my soul
physically, spiritually, consciously,
subconsciously, emotionally
and mentally.”
 

Affirmation Two
“Now, in accordance with my will and desire,
all blocks, obstacles, limitations, connections, controls,
influences and interferences to my oneness
with my soul is removed physically,
spiritually and mentally.”

Affirmation Three
“Now, in accordance with the will and desire of my soul,
all blocks, obstacles, limitations,
connections, controls, influence,
and interference around,
 the relationship with my soul partner
is removed and the relationship
is moving forward physically,
spiritually, and emotionally,
simultaneously without a struggle.”
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If you have it [love],
you don’t need to have anything else.
If you don’t have it,
it doesn’t matter much what else you do have.
– Sir James M. Barrie
 

Guest Post:Get to know “you” to truly know your twin soul

Developing the relationship with your true self requires you to focus within. For those who are a twin soul, focusing on your own inner being is to focus on him or her.

Some clients that I work with who are in twin soul relationships often come  at the relationship with their focus solely on the other half of their soul – reaching out for their twin soul rather than going within and searching for their own inner being. They put all their focus on their twin soul without acknowledging their own true self.

Truth is your twin soul shares the same soul as you, but you can’t have any kind of relationship with the other half of yourself without acknowledging and accepting yourself and who you truly are.

You can’t know the other half of your soul without knowing who you are. He or she is looking for your inner being when you reach out. Anyone who has concerns about their twin soul not “communicating”, may want to check if they are “communicating” with their own inner being and more to the point being their true self or not.

You have to put your all in to your inner being and being your true self to have a successful relationship with your twin soul. When you open yourself up to your true self, you are simultaneously opening yourself up to your twin soul. The more you release anything and everything that does not belong to your inner being, you open yourself up to your own true self. And when you fix your relationship with your true self and accept and acknowledge who you truly are, the relationship that belongs to your inner being falls into place just like that.

For those who are in a twin soul relationship and wondering why it is not working, take a look not at the other half of your soul but at yourself. Reach within and get to know who you are, that is your true self. Do the work on yourself to have that flawless connection to your twin soul, but most importantly to have that flawless connection with your true self, for he/she is you and you are he/she. You work on both of you just by  focusing on your inner being, your true self.

When you have a solid relationship with your inner being, you have a solid relationship with your twin soul. When you communicate with your inner being, you are effectively communicating with your twin soul too.

When you are working on developing your relationship with your own inner being, reach out to the other half of your soul. Let him or her know that you desire them to be involved in every aspect of your life. He will offer you the “male perspective” of yourself, and you, the “female perspective” of himself. Or she will offer you the “female perspective” of yourself, and you, the “male perspective” of herself. Whatever you are doing throughout the day, while you are being guided by your inner being, reach out to your twin soul and get them involved and get their opinion on everything – anything from what to wear, what to watch, and what to eat – as well as finding out what they need from you.

Having this strength of connection to your own inner being as well as your twin soul’s inner being on a spiritual level, makes for a much smoother relationship with he/she in the physical. That way you have soul to soul at the forefront at all times.

What can be harder than being in a relationship with the other half of you. For many it’s a major issue because they have to work on them self, get to know them self and that for many people, can be difficult because many have an awkward relationship with them self. But if you know who you are, your true self inside-out, a twin soul relationship is a smooth relationship, for you are one and the same. So get to know your self and do the work on your self, and recognise how blessed you are to be in such a unique relationship.

Love and honour your true self and your twin soul will love and honour their true self. What’s more just as you come into loving and honouring your true self, you come into loving and honouring your twin soul, therefore he/she comes into loving and honouring you, his or her twin soul. So start doing the work on you and start loving and respecting you, so you can have the love of your life and he or she can have the love of their life, you.

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Connecting with your inner being

Connecting with your inner being

Working with your soul shouldn’t be that difficult and it really isn’t when you stop fretting and start living from the place of inner peace that is oneness with your soul. Yes that energetic realm that is expansive, abundant and infinite, when you allow it to happen, can easily be reached within seconds.
Living in the physical world we have grown accustomed to very physical indicators or confirmation of things based on human experiences – eg. having money to affirm our wealth or owning a house with two cars and a garden to affirm so called “happiness”. These are all very tangible things that can be gone within seconds. Oneness is yours for life in this lifetime.
We are used to having concrete things in front of our very own eyes that confirm things for us. But when it comes to working with your inner being, there is none of that. There are no goalposts as such and there is no confirmation that you are there yet other than just a state of being. If you are looking for goalposts or a visual confirmation that you are your inner being you may just be waiting a while.
On my own spiritual journey, I’ve always looked for signals that I am one with my soul and more times than my soul cares to even mention at this point, I have got there within moments only to have missed the boat and slipped back into human physical
mode again because the “conditioning” has had me believe I was waiting for some kind of “big bang” moment.
The focus was there but the wrong focus – rather than focusing on the inner peace of my inner being I was focusing on “the wham bam thank you maam” moment. But inner beings are way more subtle than that and if you pay attention to the subtle energy of your inner being, you will get there and in no time. A bit like meditating but without the wait – oneness can be as instant as you want it to be – all it takes is the focus on and the desire and intent to be in your inner peace at all times. It’s that complete state of inner peace amidst the chaotic physical world. When you know what it feels like to be in complete inner peace at all times, it makes it harder to slip out of it.
Once there you are able to intuitively live your life, but don’t be attempting to put up those goalposts or visuals because at that point, you are back in to drab old human mode. And for those with a twin soul who struggle to connect with their partner in crime on a spiritual level, don’t be attempting to stick a visual of him in your head either because you’ll quickly find out that that dude you thought was your twin soul ain’t your twin soul but some chaos-driven image of someone to keep you out of your oneness, for one, and to keep you from connecting to the other half of your soul. And besides that “image” or so called persona of your twin soul has nothing to say and, believe me, is just as mundane as some of the men you may have dated in the past 😉
Souls use all senses to help you in your awareness of their presence, after all your inner being is 100% energy. To have an awareness of your own inner being is to be aware of them on an energetic level. The same goes for your twin soul. To be aware of him on an energetic level it requires you to be aware of your own inner being, after all you both share the same soul. Focus on your own inner being and you finesse the focus on him and who he is, as there’s no difference between you both other than he’s the male half of your soul.
When you become aware of your inner being on an energetic level, there is no more guess work, you know what it is you need to do moment by moment, guided by your higher mind, and it quickly becomes second nature to be a spiritual being in a physical world as opposed to what you perceived yourself to be prior to living live with soul. It also allows for you to become acquainted with your inner being and what belongs to her, and from that point actually begin to develop your relationship with your true self – a relationship that is immune to any BS that the physical world throws at you, and one in which unconditional love, abundance, prosperity, healing and all the things you may strive for in the physical world is there for you in a heartbeat thanks to your inner being.
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How is your relationship with your true self?

Your Relationship with your true self is reflected in your twin soul relationship

Your Relationship with your true self

While working with twin souls and doing spiritual life coaching one theme has continuously presented it self. I find that people believe that they can create the life they desire without their true self participating. If you leave your true self out of your life there will always be something missing, Something just our of reach, It is not possible to compartmentalize your life without some parts of it suffering. By first understanding and choosing to engage your true self in all aspects of your life you are able to get a better understanding of the direction your life needs to take for your ultimate fulfillment. If you are attempting to manifest a twin soul relationship into the physical it is important to first engage with your true self so that you have the benefit of  the intuition, perception and awareness of the true self.  It is why I have always stated that meeting your twin soul is meant to be the beginning of a relationship between you and your true self. Without that relationship between you and your true self your twin soul relationship tend to struggle. That is because it is hampered by how we perceive things, by facades and illusions interfering. The stronger your relationship with  your true self the stronger your relationship with your twin soul. You are able to see past the facades, illusions, and the chaos that is normally present when a twin soul union attempts to manifest physically. With that thought in mind how is your relationship with your true self? Not sure, look at your relationship with your twin soul. Is your relationship with your twin soul progressing as you desire it? What would you like to change in it? Now look again at how you engage with your true self. Twin souls relationships do mirror each other. Your relationship with your true self  and with your twin soul mirror each other. Are you trying to make the relationship work without your true self?

Keys to your twin flame /twin soul union

Are you still trying to find the keys to bring your twin soul/twin flame union into the physical?

3 Keys to unlock the door: Connect first to your inner being/soul, then ask via meditation, affirmation or just conversation with your inner being that you be centered in their energy, aligned with their energy, purpose and awareness..

Clear and release all things that does not belong to your inner being/soul, excess baggage, past events, relationships, situations, circumstances, conditions that have been placed upon your life that does not belong to your inner being/soul.

Finally remember that the actions needed to manifest your relationship exist in the present moment, not in past event or future events but now…because now[the present moment] is where your inner being /soul always reside and with your inner being/soul exist the power to manifest your twin soul union into the physical.